Choose Fun

I grew up in a house where my mother’s mantra was, “What will people think?”  I heard it so many times and it was embedded into my brain at such an early age that I can look back on my life now and pick out decisions that I made on the past based on doing the “right” or doing what people won’t judge.  I missed out on a lot of fun, a lot of stupid, young fun.

It took me a very long time to let go of that and not care what other people will think.   And what I realized was this..

For better or worse,  people are so caught up in their own lives that they don’t have time or the energy to care as much as you think they do about your hair, your clothes, your home, or the way that you dance.  And if they do…

Haters are gonna hate regardless.  You might as well be hated for doing something you believe in, have fun doing, and for a choice that you made.  But in the end…

We are often our own worst enemies.  We often judge ourselves harsher and more  than any other hater out there.  Don’t be a hater.  Those that judge themselves harshly are also the same ones that judge others harshly as well.  So just…

And above all…